Old-Fashioned Southern Homestead Banana Pudding

🌍 Cuisine: Southern
🏷️ Category: Dessert
⏱️ Prep: 30 minutes
🍳 Cook: 25 minutes
👥 Serves: 8-10 servings

📝 About This Recipe

This quintessential Southern masterpiece features layers of velvety, hand-whisked vanilla custard, buttery Nilla Wafers, and perfectly ripened bananas. Unlike modern shortcuts, this recipe honors the tradition of a cooked stovetop pudding and a towering, toasted meringue crown. It is a nostalgic symphony of textures—where the cookies soften into cake-like pillows amidst the creamy, golden custard.

🥗 Ingredients

The Custard Base

  • 3/4 cup Granulated sugar
  • 1/3 cup All-purpose flour (sifted to prevent lumps)
  • 1/4 teaspoon Salt (fine sea salt)
  • 3 cups Whole milk (room temperature for even cooking)
  • 4 large Egg yolks (beaten, save whites for meringue)
  • 2 tablespoons Unsalted butter (cubed)
  • 2 teaspoons Pure vanilla extract (high quality)

The Layers

  • 11 ounces Nilla Wafers (one standard box)
  • 5-6 large Ripe bananas (firm with brown spots, sliced into 1/4 inch rounds)
  • 1 teaspoon Lemon juice (to toss with bananas to prevent browning)

The Meringue Topping

  • 4 large Egg whites (room temperature)
  • 1/4 cup Granulated sugar
  • 1/4 teaspoon Cream of tartar (for stability)
  • 1/2 teaspoon Vanilla extract

👨‍🍳 Instructions

  1. 1

    Preheat your oven to 350°F (175°C) in preparation for browning the meringue later.

  2. 2

    In a heavy-bottomed saucepan, whisk together 3/4 cup sugar, flour, and salt until well combined.

  3. 3

    Gradually whisk in the 3 cups of milk over medium heat. Stir constantly to ensure no flour clumps form at the bottom.

  4. 4

    Continue cooking for 8-10 minutes, stirring frequently, until the mixture thickens significantly and begins to bubble gently.

  5. 5

    Temper the egg yolks by slowly whisking about half a cup of the hot milk mixture into the beaten yolks. This prevents the eggs from scrambling.

  6. 6

    Pour the tempered egg mixture back into the saucepan. Cook for an additional 2 minutes while whisking vigorously until the custard is thick and glossy.

  7. 7

    Remove from heat and stir in the butter and 2 teaspoons of vanilla extract until the butter is melted and the custard is smooth.

  8. 8

    In a 2-quart glass baking dish or trifle bowl, spread a thin layer of the warm custard on the bottom.

  9. 9

    Arrange a layer of Nilla Wafers over the custard, followed by a layer of sliced bananas (tossed in lemon juice). Repeat the layers—custard, cookies, bananas—ending with a final layer of custard on top.

  10. 10

    In a clean glass or metal bowl, beat the 4 egg whites and cream of tartar with an electric mixer on medium speed until soft peaks form.

  11. 11

    Gradually add 1/4 cup sugar and 1/2 teaspoon vanilla, beating on high speed until stiff, glossy peaks form (the whites should stand straight up when the beaters are lifted).

  12. 12

    Spread the meringue over the hot custard, sealing it all the way to the edges of the dish to prevent shrinkage.

  13. 13

    Bake for 10-15 minutes, or until the meringue peaks are a beautiful golden brown.

  14. 14

    Remove from the oven and let cool on a wire rack for 30 minutes, then refrigerate for at least 4 hours to allow the cookies to soften and the flavors to meld.

💡 Chef's Tips

Use bananas that are 'cheetah-spotted'—sweet enough for flavor but firm enough to hold their shape. Never stop whisking the custard; the sugar and flour can scorch the bottom of the pan in seconds. To avoid a 'weeping' meringue, spread it over the custard while the custard is still hot. For the best texture, let the pudding chill overnight; this turns the wafers into a cake-like consistency. If you prefer a cold whipped cream topping, skip the meringue steps and top with stabilized whipped cream after the pudding has chilled completely.

🍽️ Serving Suggestions

Serve in glass coupes or mason jars to showcase the beautiful layers. Pair with a glass of cold whole milk or a dark roast coffee to balance the sweetness. A side of salty roasted pecans adds a wonderful textural contrast. For a holiday twist, sprinkle a pinch of freshly grated nutmeg over the meringue before baking. Enjoy alongside other Southern favorites like fried chicken or BBQ brisket for the ultimate comfort meal.