Grandmother’s Sweet and Sour Bamya: A Mizrahi Jewish Classic

🌍 Cuisine: Mizrahi Jewish
🏷️ Category: Main Course
⏱️ Prep: 25 minutes
🍳 Cook: 2 hours
👥 Serves: 6 servings

📝 About This Recipe

This soul-warming okra and beef stew is a cornerstone of Mizrahi Jewish heritage, particularly beloved in Iraqi and Egyptian households. Tender chunks of beef are slow-simmered in a rich, velvety tomato broth that perfectly balances sweet and tangy notes with a hint of garlic and lemon. Using traditional techniques to ensure the okra remains intact and silky rather than slimy, this dish is a true celebration of patience and flavor.

🥗 Ingredients

The Meat and Aromatics

  • 2 pounds Beef Chuck or Shoulder (cut into 1.5-inch cubes)
  • 3 tablespoons Olive Oil (divided)
  • 1 large Yellow Onion (finely diced)
  • 6-8 pieces Garlic Cloves (thinly sliced)
  • 4 cups Beef Broth or Water (more as needed)

The Bamya (Okra)

  • 1.5 pounds Fresh or Frozen Baby Okra (stems trimmed carefully without piercing the pod)
  • 1 tablespoon Lemon Juice (for rinsing fresh okra)

The Sauce and Spices

  • 6 ounces Tomato Paste (one small can)
  • 1 cup Crushed Tomatoes (canned or fresh pureed)
  • 1/4 cup Lemon Juice (freshly squeezed)
  • 1-2 tablespoons Sugar or Pomegranate Molasses (to balance the acidity)
  • 1 tablespoon Paprika (sweet or smoked)
  • 1 teaspoon Cumin (ground)
  • 2 teaspoons Kosher Salt (adjust to taste)
  • 1/2 teaspoon Black Pepper (freshly ground)

👨‍🍳 Instructions

  1. 1

    Prepare the okra: If using fresh okra, wash and pat completely dry. Carefully trim the conical stem end without cutting into the pod itself to prevent the 'slime' from releasing. Toss with 1 tablespoon of lemon juice and let sit for 10 minutes.

  2. 2

    In a large heavy-bottomed pot or Dutch oven, heat 1 tablespoon of olive oil over medium-high heat. Pat the beef cubes dry with paper towels.

  3. 3

    Sear the beef in batches until browned on all sides, about 8-10 minutes total. Remove the meat and set aside on a plate.

  4. 4

    In the same pot, add another tablespoon of oil if needed. Sauté the diced onion until translucent and golden, about 6 minutes.

  5. 5

    Add half of the sliced garlic and sauté for 1 minute until fragrant. Return the beef and any accumulated juices to the pot.

  6. 6

    Pour in the beef broth (or water) until the meat is covered by an inch. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat to low, cover, and simmer for 60-75 minutes until the beef is nearly tender.

  7. 7

    While the meat simmers, heat the remaining tablespoon of oil in a separate non-stick skillet over medium-high heat. Sauté the okra for 5 minutes until slightly blistered. This 'sears' the pods and prevents them from breaking down in the stew.

  8. 8

    Once the beef is tender, stir in the tomato paste, crushed tomatoes, paprika, cumin, salt, and pepper. Mix well to dissolve the paste.

  9. 9

    Gently fold the sautéed okra into the pot. Add the lemon juice and sugar (or pomegranate molasses).

  10. 10

    Add the remaining raw garlic slices on top—this provides a secondary layer of sharp garlic flavor.

  11. 11

    Cover and simmer on low for another 25-30 minutes. The sauce should thicken and the okra should be tender but still hold its shape.

  12. 12

    Taste the sauce. It should be a vibrant 'sweet and sour' balance. Adjust with more lemon juice for tang or sugar for sweetness if desired.

  13. 13

    Let the stew rest for 10 minutes before serving. This allows the flavors to settle and the sauce to reach its peak consistency.

💡 Chef's Tips

When trimming fresh okra, avoid cutting the 'cap' off entirely; just shave the edges to keep the pod sealed. If using frozen okra, do not thaw it before sautéing to maintain the best texture. For a deeper flavor, make this dish a day in advance—the spices mellow and the beef becomes even more succulent. If the sauce is too thin, simmer uncovered for the last 10 minutes; if too thick, add a splash of boiling water. Avoid stirring the pot vigorously once the okra is added; instead, gently shake the pot to prevent breaking the pods.

🍽️ Serving Suggestions

Serve over a bed of fluffy white basmati rice or traditional Israeli 'Ruz im Sha’riya' (rice with toasted vermicelli). Pair with a side of 'Amba' (pickled mango sauce) for an extra kick of authentic Iraqi flavor. A simple Israeli salad of finely chopped cucumbers and tomatoes provides a refreshing crunch. Serve with warm pita or laffa bread to mop up every drop of the rich tomato gravy. Enjoy with a glass of chilled, dry white wine or a strong glass of nana (mint) tea.